• Hadriscus@jlai.lu
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      I damn nearly got murdered by an angry speeding cyclist in Paris, near a canal. I crossed the lane without realizing, not being used to their presence. Bike lanes are simply nonexistent where I live, and I was only staying in Paris for a couple weeks. The dude got super mad at me, like super super mad. To this day I still fantasize about throwing him and his fucking bike in the canal. I really should have done it… why do I have to second-guess everything

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        Learn how to cry on command. That would probably have taken the wind out of his sails. I’m not a car freak. If I could get by in my suburban hell without one I would. That being said, if cars have to be aware of cyclists then cyclists need to be aware of pedestrians.

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          Yea, exactly my point. I’m not denying that I should have been aware of the presence of the bike lane but it falls on the guy on a vehicle to be acutely aware of his surroundings and wary of potential collisions. I say this as a driver and a bicycler

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          So if a pedestrian walked onto the road without looking or anything, you’d say the driver is at fault?

          A cycle lane is to a bike as a road is to a car. A pedestrian is allowed to cross it after looking and checking that no vehicle is coming, and the pedestrian has to give right of way.

          Cars have to be aware of cyclists when cyclists are driving on the road, since both have equal rights to be there. Same as a car has to be aware of another car or a cyclists of another cyclist. Both are allowed to use the road, so both need to be aware of each other.

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            If a car driver is expected to be aware of pedestrians, then a cyclist is to be expected to be aware of pedestrians. You can’t have it both ways. A cyclist can easily cause serious injury to a pedestrian.

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              3 days ago

              Is a pedestrian expected to be aware of car drivers on the side walk?

              Is a car driver expected to be aware of pedestrians on the highway?

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                Yes, and also yes. personal responsibility for your own safety doesn’t magically disappear because of paint on the ground.

                Responsibility for the machine you’re operating that can harm others doesn’t magically disappear when it weighs less.

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                  To be honest, it’s a wrong argument anyways. The cyclist was aware of the pedestrian on the bike lane and he stopped in time. So the whole argument doesn’t matter.

                  The actual point is whether the pedestrian was in the right to wander onto the bike lane, completely oblivious to his surroundings.

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                    They were both in the wrong. The cyclist shouldn’t be entitled to being an asshole because they’re inconvenienced, and the pedestrian doesn’t get to wander in the bike lane unaware of their surroundings.

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        I was being inconsiderate and dangerous in traffic, and it’s the other guy’s fault

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            You’re still part of traffic when you’re on foot. And yes, it was 100% your fault and the cyclist was right to be pissed.

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            Was it a cycle path or a foot path?

            If it was a cycle path, then you are allowed to cross it on foot, but you aren’t allowed to walk on it.

            If you blindly wandered onto a road and a driver got angry because he almost hit you because of that, would you also believe you had the right to throw his car off a bridge?

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              Neither (or both?), it was an overcrowded walkable canal bank in the height of summer with faint paint marks to delimit the path of the bike “lane”. I was in the wrong in any case, what I’m complaining about is the dude’s reaction. My point is you have to be able to share the space and safely navigate what is inevitably going to be a crowded area at that time of year, especially when riding a bicycle which can be dangerous in its own right.

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                So it was a bike lane that you were on. Being to dumb to understand what a bike lane is and that a bike lane is for, you know, bikes is not an excuse.

                You complain about that dude’s reaction but wanted to commit theft/vandalism and think you are justified in that?

                You are the idiot who actively made riding a bike dangerous in that situation and still believe you are justified?

                Let me guess, you are American?