Lemmy is mostly people who were banned from reddit for being too toxic (I am not an exception to this rule). Gather them all together and you have Lemmy.
Mostly we’ve all just learned to accept the toxicity and have thicker skin here than most other places on the internet. We do this by out-toxic-ing the other people here we don’t like.
Proof to support your claim? This seems like an outright lie to me.